There are 8 billion people in the world, and the pursuit to find that one person is still going strong. Where half of us have chosen to live with the destiny of arranged marriage, the other half is still thriving. Some are relying on modern-day technological apps such as Tinder, Bumble, Aisle, etc. Others are still going the old-school way. They're the one who truly understands the meaning of personal touch and doesn't pertain themselves to trying anything.
Some of us try finding it in school, and some of us do it during college, but the ones who left both institutions high and dry often drown themselves in work and are always unaware that true love happens once you reach mature years.
for those lads who often find "The One" in the office but struggle to ask their coworkers out. We have a few approaches you can try, and they might just help you achieve true love before you end up marrying the arranger.
Let's Begin......
- Provide Assistance:
There is no easy way to put this, but in order for you to win her, you've got to be there for her; that's the only way. The key to a woman's heart is not through food but reliability. be there for her every need. Provide her with every possible assistance cause once you make her reliable you re-lie under her.
- Have a friendly talk once in a while without sounding creepy:
Alright, lads hold your horses down sometimes in order to achieve big you gotta have a strategy. The key to a healthy relationship always starts with friendship. So befriend her, be her close confidant cause by doing that you'll be establishing a relationship even of friendship. Don't shy away from friendship; it will all lead up to the ending you desire.
- Make her Laugh:
Everybody knows what icebreakers are but only some know the art of it or the real value of it. It's the foundation that you lay before making a building or creating a piece of art over it. Always start your conversation with a joke or try to be funny as much as you can in a sensitive way; not every woman appreciates dark humor. As long as they're having a laugh out of the conversation you are in, the moment it gets dense that's where the real trouble begins. Always make her laugh; if your wit is with you, she is with you too.
- Make her comfortable in the office:
It’s hard for people to get acquainted with people upon arrival in a new place. In comparison to men women mostly find it harder to adjust in a new environment. And that’s where you can be of help. We have already established that you are needy and want to impress this woman. So be around as much as you can—not too much, just the right amount. Don’t be around like a dog, but be there for her.
- Provide Her with Your Attention:
"Attention is vitality. It connects you with others. It makes you eager. Stay eager."
Attention is a two-way street; if you provide someone with your attention, you get it in return too. Watch over your colleague. Make sure that she is not in any trouble; if there is, that’s where you can help. Remember, as an old employee, you have more weight here. If a new employee does some mishap all they look for is some support from their colleague and if you become that pillar for her it would lead to the strong building of a relationship.
- Be A Man!: The phrase made famous by Russell Peters but I mean in a different sense. It resembles gentlemanship here. Your aura defines the best about you. If you want to impress your colleague, become a person who everyone likes and listens to. Women like men who take charge and have authority. Yes, women also like sweet people but they tend easily to attract the one who has that aura.
- Chivalry needs not to die:
Dave Chappelle once said in his stand-up that "Chivillary is dead, and a woman killed it." In recent times, there may have been instances where males started to wonder whether they should be generous towards women or not because of all the equal rights movements, and it has gotten to the point where they’re hard to please. But, trust me, women love nothing but chivalry from guys, and as a guy, if you want to impress her, bring back the chivalry.
- Gifts: Guys probably don’t have the clue but women like gifts a lot, "A Lot". In fact, you can just know how much they like by just watching the last episode of a friend’s first season. Ross gave Rachel a beautiful gift, which kick-started their relationship that lasted for 10 long seasons. So, always pay attention to the details when a woman rambles about her thing because that’s where the hidden keys lie that could open their heart.
- Be Yourself: Guys really try hard to impress girls. They really do; they’ll nod along to everything their woman says. Suppose the woman likes some movie that clearly the guy didn’t like but just to impress his woman guy will lie about it. That just sets a bad frame for the long run. So, be aware of that attitude and always be yourself. The more you are true to yourself the more opportunities in your horizons are sure to rise.
- Provide Her With Emotional Support:
Now, this is the part where you don’t use your brain but put your heart at use. Empathy is something we boys in general lack in big time. So work on that, and you’ll be golden. When you see her mood sink, instead of finding ways to cheer her up, indulge with her. Try to understand her, don’t try to be a savior instead become somebody whom she could share her feelings with. Remember, not every problem can be solved, but you could provide her with moral support, and that’s the loveliest thing you could do for her.
Conclusion: Everything I just mentioned in the blog will help you in the long run with females. If you still have this question as to how do I approach a female coworker? Then go through the blog again and you’ll find just the needful tips which you can get results from. Women are hard to impress in this era but still not impossible to attain. So, be yourself and leave the rest of everything to faith. It will find its path to you.
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